• Congratulations to our winners in the Simple Zakat Guide giveaway!

    25 Dec 2015


    Congratulations to our winners:
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  • Umrah Trip December 2015

    2 Dec 2015

    Winter Umrah w/ Sh. Joe Bradford
    4 nights Medina/ 3 nights Makkah
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  • Announcing the Muslim Money Guide

    26 Mar 2015

    After toiling long and hard on this site (well long, not hard enough) I and a few friends who are also specialists in money issues decided “Why don’t we combine our efforts and launch a community resource?” and so the Muslim Money Guide was born.

    Featuring articles, podcasts, videos, and seminars we hope that it will act as a 3rd party independent resource for all issues involving Muslims and Money.

    Take and look at it here.

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  • Is it OK for an Imam to have a salary?

    5 Nov 2014

    Is it OK for an Imam to have a salary?

    One of the more contentious issues to discuss these days is religious figures receiving any form of remuneration for their services, services that are focused on what are considered “religious services.” Religious services may be very broadly thought of as anything from teaching religion, issuing religious rulings (fatwa), leading prayers, conducting marriages, counseling, and other services. A common retort to any form of remuneration is that there is no precedent for paying for anything “religious” usually coupled with a quote from the hadith narrated by al-Tirmidhi that the Prophet said “Do not take a Mu’adhdhin who takes a reward for his adhan.”

    This post will not delve into the contextualizing the above hadith and other related texts. Instead it will remedy the first claim, and that is “there is no precedent for remunerating religious employment.” To do this, I quote several authoritative works in each of the four schools, (more…)

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  • Solace – How To Offer Condolences

    3 Nov 2014

    Every phonecall cuts like a knife.

    When you’ve lost a loved one, the last thing you want to do is answer the phone or be around someone, but then again the one thing you want most is some normality, so you pick up the phone and open the door. Clarity of mind is something sought after, not something to be expected at this time. Some people call you not knowing, and wonder why or how you can be so despondent or stand-offish to them. Others would call and say with the sensitivity of a schizophrenic “Sorry for your loss, but hey you know what can I say…” Silence from some may be safe, but not sound in the hurting heart. There are though those that actually console, ask real questions, make dua, and most importantly let you know they are there for you. Not that they are in fact physically there, but the sentiment and the short visits are what counts.

    Pain subsides in the cool words of condolences, like a thick salve spread over an open wound on a hot summer’s day is then covered with fresh cotton. You know the pain is there, that it will take time to heal, and that there will always be a scar. But the temporary relief is so soothing. Sadly, there is a shortage of medicament these days.

    When a relative dies, the last thing a survivor wants to hear is someone decide their fate (explicitly or implied). Even worse is when someone expects you to play Quincy MD, Colombo, and Perry Mason combined, expounding on all reasons for the death in reply to their so-well-phrased question of “But, why!?” I understand of course that the shock for some people is too much, but it is certainly not more than that experienced by those closest to the deceased.

    I’m not sure of the causes of human insensitivity. After much deliberation it seems to be due to one main cause: the fact that we are all human. For many of us, death is a thing too far off to recognize, even when he presents himself at our doorsteps, barges in on us, or comes like a thief in the night.


    Is It Not A Soul?

    Every human soul is due respect, regardless of the faith that it lives by or passed away on. Bukhari narrates from Abdul-Rahman ibn Abi Layla that Sahl ibn Hanif and Qays ibn Sa’ad were sitting in the town of Qadisiyyah when a funeral procession passed, upon which they stood in respect. Someone said to them “It was a procession of the people of this land (i.e. Non-Muslims). They replied to this saying “A Jewish funeral procession once passed God’s Messenger, upon which he stood. Someone said to him: It’s a Jewish funeral procession. He replied: Is it not a soul?”

    In a similar narration from Jabir found in Muslim he said “Death comes by surprise; when you see a funeral then stand.”

    Several people I’ve spoken say quite simply they don’t know what to do at the time of death, don’t know what to say (or what not to), or even if they should do or say anything at all. Regaining equilibrium is something essential to coping. Small visits and kind words count; not a hands-off approach, but not a fully hands-on one either.[1]

    God’s Messenger – as narrated in Bukhari – said “God helps his servant as long as he is helpful to his brother. As such God’s Messenger would console Muslims during their troubled times.[2]Al-Aswad b. Abdullah narrates that God’s Messenger said “Whoever gives condolences to an afflicted person will be given a like reward.”[3]


    How To Offer Condolences

    There is no one way to offer condolences, any which way they are given is acceptable. Some scholars preferred the following when giving condolences:

    When consoling a Muslim upon the death of a Muslim:

    أعظم الله أجرك ، وأحسن عزاءك ، وغفر لميّتك

    May God make your reward great, ease your pain, and forgive the deceased.

    When consoling a Muslim on the loss of a non-Muslim:

    أعظم الله أجرك ، وأحسن عزاءك

    May God make your reward great and ease your pain.

    When consoling a non-Muslim on the loss of a non-Muslim:

    أخلف الله عليك

    May God reward your loss.

    The best manner in which one console someone is to say:

    إنّ لله ما أخذ، ولله ما أعطى ، ولكل شيء أجل مسمّى ، فلتصبر ولتحتسب.

    “To God belongs what he took, and to him belongs what he gave, and he has set for everything an appointed time. So have patience and seek reward.”

    Imam al-Nawawi commenting on this last phrase, which is from a hadith, he said “This is the best phrase one can use for condolences.”[4] This last phrase is general and can be used for all those who have lost someone.


    Who Specifically Should We Console?

    There are ways in which early Muslims expressed condolences. AbdulRazzaq al-San’ani narrates that Al-Hasan would pass by the deceased’s family and say to them “May God make your reward great. May God forgive your companion. AbdulRazzaq was then asked by his students “Who specifically should we console? He replied “Every sorrowful person, because a person may be more affected by the loss of his friend or brother than even the deceased’s own family.”[5]

    Many Muslims can become over conscientious and feel awkward when giving condolences, and especially if they did not share the faith of the deceased. Ask yourself a simple question: “Is it not a soul? Condolences for non-Muslims are not only permissible, but may be recommended, this being the stronger and more supported view. Sending condolences upon the death of a non-Muslim is the same as visiting him when sick, the Prophet having visited his Jewish neighbor and consoled while his son was dying (as is narrated in the Sahih).

    Building off of this, we find several condolences upon the death of non-Muslim friends, neighbors and relatives narrated from early Muslims. For instance, al-Ajlah would say to those surviving “I advise you to fear God and be patient. Ibrahim would say “May God grant you many children, much wealth, and a long life. Al-Hasan would say “May nothing but good come to you.”[6]Abdullah b. Battah would say “May God grant you in your time of need the best thing he would grant anyone of your faith.”[7]


    Help To Lessen Other’s Sorrow

    We all miss those we’ve lost, and though we cannot bring them back, we can help those still with us to cope. A man once came to Al-Hasan al-Basri expressing his sorrow at the loss of his son. Al-Hasan said to him: “Did your son ever travel, leaving you behind? The man said: “Yes, he was travelling more than he was ever around. At this Al-Hasan said to him: “Then consider him travelling, because he’s never left you alone in a time in which your reward was greater than it is now. The man said: “Abu Sa’id, you’ve lessened the sorrow of my son’s departure.”[8]
    والله الموفــّق وصلى الله على نبينا محمد،

    كتبه: جو برادفورد

    May God Almighty give us strength, and may He grace our Prophet Muhammad.


    [1] Many scholars of the past disliked (to the extent that some declared it an innovation) to sit with the deceased’s family for extended periods of time. They viewed this as not only an invasion of privacy, but as a cause for more sorrow, negating the reason why condolences are recommended to be given in the first place. See al-Nawawi below.

    [2] Musannaf Abdulrazzaq 3/395

    [3] Tirmidhi #1073. This hadith however contains some weakness; there is however narrations of similar meaning that support it.

    [4] al-Adhkar P. 162

    [5] Musannaf Abdulrazzaq 3/395

    [6] Jami’ al-Khallal P. 223

    [7] al-Mughni 2/545

    [8] al-Adhkar P. 163




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  • Dear aspiring Khatib, A little advice…

    31 Oct 2014

    BlueLogoDear aspiring Khatib,

    Please pay attention to the following issues: (more…)

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